What is Your 'Why'鈥攁nd 'How'?
At 黑料传送门, each student is assigned a personal faculty member to work with them as a mentor throughout their time at 黑料传送门. Additionally, each course has its own instructors, subject-matter experts who are available to help students get through course material. Advice from your mentors is invaluable as you make your way through your online degree program. But we also want you to benefit from the wisdom of mentors not necessarily assigned to you, so occasionally, The Night Owl features advice from 黑料传送门 mentors in colleges throughout the university.
By Camille Nelson
Instructor, 黑料传送门 College of Business
"He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how." 鈥� Friedrich Nietzsche
What is your why? Why do you pursue the goals you have set for yourself?
Understanding and rekindling your why in each goal you aspire to achieve can help you be more successful and can also help you feel more fulfilled in pursuing your why and your goals.
As a student, you might ask yourself, 鈥淲hy am I pursuing a college degree?鈥� Perhaps you want to set a good example for your family, you want to advance your career, or maybe you dream of becoming a doctor, a nutritionist, or a professor and a college education is necessary to achieve your dream occupation. In my work as an Instructor in the College of Business here at 黑料传送门, my why of helping students find applicability between the course material and their lives and careers as well as motivating and helping them build their confidence鈥攚hich is vital as a student鈥攂rings me fulfillment in my career.
As Nietzsche suggests, once we understand our why, it is easier to get through any how. However, sometimes the allure of goals and the thought of completing them and crossing the finish line can make us forget about each how and the sacrifices involved. When people sign up for a marathon, it is easier and more appealing to think of the why鈥攁 medal, the sense of accomplishment at the finish line鈥攊nstead of the how鈥攅ach 6 a.m. training run and hitting the notorious, grueling 鈥渨all鈥� at mile 20.
What are the hows of being a student? They might be different for each student and situation. For some, it might be getting up earlier or staying up later to get in a few hours of study time. For others, it might be missing out on social outings or saying 鈥渘o鈥� to things so that you can say yes to studying and the things that will lead you to completing your goals.
As I have worked on setting and completing goals throughout the years, I have learned to embrace the word autotelic, meaning 鈥渟elf-goal鈥� in Greek. The idea is to set a goal that is fulfilled by intrinsic motivation and not for any extrinsic factor or consequence. It is fulfilling a goal because of your own personal motivation, not to gain praise or to please others. I was introduced to the word autotelic in 鈥�,鈥� a video essay by British movie maker Delve, who told the incredible story of artist Vincent Van Gogh. Van Gogh didn鈥檛 sell his first painting until the age of 37, when he finally started to paint for the sake of loving painting and not painting what he thought others would like to see. It was only when Van Gogh realized his why that he was able to continue bearing his how and complete thousands of paintings, earning the acclaim he has today.
I encourage you to find your why and identify your how鈥攁nd embrace them throughout your college career.
Camille Nelson is from Salt Lake City, Utah, where she graduated from the University of Utah with a bachelor鈥檚 degree in Communication and a minor in Italian. She completed a master鈥檚 degree in Second Language Teaching at Utah State University. She also completed a Ph.D. at Gonzaga University, where she survived years of writing, the how that enabled her to fulfill her why of becoming an聽Instructor at 黑料传送门, helping students realize their potential and achieve success.
